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Practical Christian Living - Tang Tungled
Written by Douglas Wilson   
Thursday, 20 October 2005 05:19

One of Jane Austen’s characters (somewhere) says that honesty is a greatly over-rated virtue. Of course we should not take this as a basis for justifying ungodly lies or other forms of unrighteous deceit. But at the same time, we should recognize that within the Church there are a number of verbal sins which are often committed for the sake of "honesty." In other words, an unscriptural standard of what constitutes real honesty is arbitrarily set up and then the advocate of this approach begins to create mayhem in the church. "Mrs. Schwartz, that is one ugly hat."

In this view, covering up sin must be a grievous sin. It is also thought that "holding back" any unwelcome views would also be dishonest sin. But however bad the phrase "cover-up" sounds in the ears of some, I have told people before that I am a pastor, and that I consequently cover things up for a living. The Bible tells us in effect to strive for this. Love covers up a multitude of sins, and does so in a quite different fashion than does hypocrisy. Bringing this lesson all back to the tongue should be quite simple. "A talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter" (Prov. 11:13).



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Hans Snoek  Thursday, October 20, 2005 6:01 am
Mr Darcy says to Elizabeth Bennett, "I have made the mistake of being honest with you." This in reference to the offense caused by the excoriating assessment he has made of her family.

To this confession of error Elizabeth replies, "Honesty is a greatly overrated virtue. Silence in this case would have been more agreeable."

This appears to fit very well with your post as her statement is not in favour of lying or even of concealing the truth but rather in favour of concern for the feelings of others.
Charles Sutton  Sunday, December 02, 2012 11:31 am
I have met more than a few people who think that being honest means telling others the unvarnished reaction they have to what others say or do. But the real challenge of being honest is openly sharing one's struggles as one seeks to grow in Christ. Insults in the name of honesty drives wedges between people. Vulnerability opens doors to mutual support - as terrifying as it can be.